As a young newspaper reporter in Newport News, Virginia, Clarice Belcher discovered a career that utilized her English major yet sparked her interest in psychology. It was a pivotal experience at her church, however, which highlighted the profound impact of psychology and effective communication.

“In 2001, I was attending a church that was experiencing such intense conflict that it effectively polarized the congregation,” Belcher recalls. “The minister and his staff lacked the skills necessary to manage the situation, so they sought external assistance. I participated in a workshop where the facilitator presented a copy of Marshall Rosenberg’s book, Nonviolent Communication, and urged us to ‘read it and memorize it.’ I had never encountered such a strong endorsement for a book, so I read it—and I loved it.” Two years later, in 2001, she attended one of Rosenberg’s training workshops in Atlanta.

The principles outlined in Rosenberg’s work began to shape Belcher’s personal life, particularly in her relationships. “My partner and I had very different ways of thinking and expressing ourselves, which often led to frustration. As we adopted the language of nonviolent communication—sharing our feelings and needs—we deepened our connection, found greater ease in our exchanges and cultivated a stronger sense of trust. We learned that while our needs were often the same, our strategies for meeting them differed. Identifying our needs fostered compassion, enabling us to communicate more effectively.”

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 Encouraged by the transformative impact of this communication style on her relationship, Belcher sought to share these insights with others through classrooms and workshops. To date, she has conducted over 90 workshops and currently facilitates 12 practice groups, including those focused on married couples and individuals. While she originally conducted her workshops in person, she now primarily utilizes online platforms. “I transitioned to offering workshops via Zoom,” she explains. “Although the connection on Zoom differs from in-person interactions, it remains meaningful. This format allows me to connect with participants across various states and even countries. The workshops are free, as it brings me joy to share this work with others.”

Belcher believes that the teachings she imparts in her workshops are essential for inspiring meaningful change in society as they encourage individuals to embrace vulnerability. “When people allow themselves to be vulnerable, connections deepen, and hearts open to one another. Loneliness diminishes, and connection prevails. Participants often find it empowering to understand their feelings and needs, as it enables them to express their truths without causing harm to others. When we can listen to one another without judgment, criticism or blame, it becomes a game-changer—transforming what we once thought impossible into achievable realities.”

For information about sponsoring or hosting Belcher’s workshops, email her at [email protected].