Coronavirus as a Calling
Oct 01, 2020 09:30AM ● By Gregg Levoy
Not to diminish the fact that we’re dealing with a serious and
worldwide epidemiological threat, the pandemic can be transmuted into
golden opportunities, especially if we follow the sometimes blind
spiritual instinct that tells us this crisis—indeed each of our
individual lives—has purpose and meaning, and that we need to act on
this impulse despite the temptation to back down and run for cover. Here
are four ways to respond to the call of these turbulent times:
Use it as a reset.
For months, it has been impossible to conduct busyness-as-usual, and we
may be left with unaccustomed time on our hands. But like the asteroid
that ushered out the dinosaurs and gave the mammals underfoot a shot at
prominence, once the thunder lizards of everyday busyness and
distraction are sidelined, parts of us that are normally overshadowed
may be given an entrance cue—not just projects we’ve back-burnered in
deference to the daily grind, but deeper thoughts and feelings about our
priorities, the status quo, work/life (im)balance or our inner life.
The better part of valor and wisdom may lie in asking, “What can I learn
here?” rather than, “How can I overcome this?”
Consider it a powerful meditation.
Meditation teachers tell us that distractions aren’t obstacles, they
are the meditation, so that we say to ourselves, “Ah, the dog-bark
meditation,” or “Ah, the weed-whacker meditation.” The same with the
coronavirus. Approach it not just as a distraction from our goals and
how it can block our intentions, but as a vehicle of meditation itself:
How do we feel, what wants to emerge and what do we truly know?
Appreciate it as connective tissue in society.
We’re seeing firsthand how our individual actions can affect those
around us, for better and for worse, and that we depend on one another
for survival. Washing our hands and sheltering in place are acts of both
self-care and community care. In the weeks following 9/11 when the
fiction of our invulnerability was so shockingly revealed, many of us
began holding doors open for strangers, spending more time with our
kids, honking less and listening more. Life’s fragility, our fragility,
woke us up to our need for each other. Now that social isolation is
suddenly forced on us, it reminds us how precious those connections are.
Approach it as a reminder of mortality.
The pandemic is a perfect opportunity to practice the fine and fearsome
art of non-attachment, because life will ultimately ask us to surrender
everything. “We all owe God a death,” Shakespeare wrote. We can use
this time to clarify what’s important and how to best use our precious
nick of time. When we strip ourselves of any illusions of immortality,
we are thus free to live our lives to the fullest.
Gregg Levoy is the author of Callings: Finding and Following an Authentic Life and Vital Signs: The Nature and Nurture of Passion, and a regular blogger for Psychology Today.